in college, it is common to see friendship among boys and girls. what is difficult is how to deal with personal contacts between different sexes. the key is to differentiate between love and friendship.

　　friendship is the basic need of human feehngs. friendship may lead to love. but love does not certainly come from friendship. friendship is the foundation of love, no love is true without friendship.

　　love is selfish and exclusive, while friendship is selfless and extensive. love is not necessarily to be returned. but friendship needs a contraet and something in exchange.

　　i believe there exists pure friendship between sexes. sometimes the power of frienship surpasses the power of love. there may be misunderstanding and rumors even slanders about heterosexual frienship. in this world there are many inexplieicable things. actions speak louder than words.